Donations

For those of you who have asked (and bless you for even wondering), an account has been set up for our adoption fund. Our church is partnering with us and is now accepting donations. All donations are tax deductible.

God is really growing us in humility through the adoption process. Being in a situation where we have a real financial need is very much out of our comfort zone. Accepting assistance for this need can be - well, quite awkward really. Don't get me wrong - we are immensely appreciative for every single sacrifice that is being made. But we are equally humbled by your generosity. This is a growing pain we are learning to accept. Ben and I neither one are exactly humble-savvy. We both prefer to be in the driver's seat and vowing to do something that is 100% outside of our control is a little trying. And a lesson that is, obviously, much needed.

God is showing us that this picture is much bigger than Baby B. Much bigger than our little family. He will (thankfully) be glorified through so many more people than the five of us. He is calling people from all over the world to be a part of this story. Of this redemptive process. So we will do everything we can to get out of our own way, to point all praise to God and to thank Him for every part of this hard and beautiful quest.

NOTE: I feel an urging to tell you this - If you have ever even considered adoption I urge you to please pray about it. If God can use us, he can use anybody! ANNNEEEEE. BODY. Trust me, we are not amazing people, Spiritual giants or super parents. We do not have more love to give away than anyone else. We BY NO MEANS have any of this figured out. We are simply relying on the Father to the Fatherless, on Jehovah Jireh (the God of provision), and the Author of this story to show us the path and give us the power of His Spirit to walk it.

Praying for the Transition Home

While this step is still many months ahead of us, Ben and I have been praying for the transition of Baby B's arrival. Obviously, there will be a transition for us as parents. And of course, for Asher and Audrey as his siblings. But our real prayer lies with Baby B's transition. Recently, one of our shepherds shared this with us. The entire article can be seen here. It is about the parallel between the bonding that is crucial for an adopted child and his new family and the bonding that is required for a new Christian and his church family.

But I want to focus on this excerpt. She shares it from her daughter's blog who is about to adopt a child from overseas. She describes why the bonding process is so important.

“His whole world is about to be rocked!  He will be sent with people he doesn’t know, who smell, look and sound different from anyone else that he has ever seen.  He will be eating new foods, traveling outside his orphanage for what will probably be the very first time in his two and a half years, seeing tons of new sights, living in a hotel room for the first time (which he may think is our house), and even riding on an airplane half way across the world.  That is a lot for a little guy to take in and that’s just the changes that he’ll experience in China.  Once we get home there will be two new brothers and a new sister for him to get used to, another new place, another new bed, more new smells, more new foods. A lot of new! We expect him to experience grief over the loss of his nannies, friends, and familiar routine that he had in the orphanage.  We expect him to be overwhelmed.  But, we also know that God is a God of redemption and healing and that prayer can change much!  We will also try to do everything in our power to make this transition easier for him.” 

We are thankful that B is in the care of an amazing Christian woman who is fostering him in her home. He is being extremely well cared for and is being showed the love of our Father every single day. And while that is a huge blessing for him and for us as his future parents, we also realize he will miss her very much and leaving her care is bound to be hard. He is used to being the only child in a quiet, peaceful home and now he will have two siblings who never ever ever stop making noise. He is living in a time zone that is opposite of ours. When he is sleeping, we are awake and vice versa. He has been through so much in his short lifetime already. God is writing a beautiful story for him. Please help us continue to pray for what is still to come.

Noonday Party - Our First Fundraiser to Bring Home Baby B

Have y'all heard of Noonday? Because it is amazing. If you even think you like jewelry, shoes, scarves, or BAGS (!) at all you have to check them out. Their stuff is incredible. And that is just the tip of their awesomeness iceberg.

I have a couple of friends who are ambassadors for this company. They are called ambassadors because what Noonday does is so much more than just help you accessorize. So much more than that. This is an excerpt straight from their website about their mission:

Noonday Collection's mission is to create economic opportunity for the vulnerable. We partner with artisans in the developing world, empowering them to grow sustainable businesses. By creating a marketplace for their goods, we create dignified jobs at living wages. This allows our artisans to earn more in order to support their families. We also offer no interest loans and make advance payments on orders. This way we are able to shoulder the costs of materials and build a lasting relationship based on trust. We offer scholarship programs and emergency assistance
Noonday Collection also donates a portion of sales from adoption trunk shows to place orphans in forever families.
Noonday Collection is not a charity and we do not believe that providing a hand out is a sustainable long-term solution to poverty. We aim to be a sustainable business that gives women across the United States a way to make a lasting difference in the fight against poverty and injustice. This is what makes this movement so special. To learn more about Noonday's impact, click here: http://www.noondaycollection.com/impact

I mean, WOW, right? That's a whole lot of good-doing. And they make it easy to make a difference (A GOOD DIFFERENCE) just by buying some adorable-make-the-whole-outfit-cute earrings. Your fashion sense can now restore dignity to abandoned women in Ethiopia, empower communities in Ecuador, and create business opportunities for Ugandans.

Did you see that part about adoption trunk shows? That's what I want to talk to you about. One of my amazing friends, Cortney McKinney, contacted me a few days ago and said she wanted to have a Noonday Fundraiser for me. This is just the kind of thing Cortney would do. She is a school counselor so children are very dear to her humongous Sprirt-led heart. She is hospitable, beautiful, and wise. So, while I should NOT have been surprised that someone as amazing as she is would offer to help serve in our adoption journey, I was so humbled. And grateful. Very, very grateful.

So she and another friend, Alicia Hale, are working together to make this thing happen. Alicia is a Noonday ambassador. She is matching Noonday's donation of 10%  to give us a total of 20% of all purchases toward helping us bring our baby home from China. I am blessed y'all. The caliber of people I am surrounded by definitely bring up my average.

So...wanna take a look?!? Visit www.aliciahale.noondaycollection.com. If you decide you would like to  make a purchase, PLEASE BE SURE TO TYPE GRIZZLE ADOPTION IN THE TRUNK SHOW LINE.


These are just a few of my favorite pieces. A very small fraction of the stuff I love.

Help support these artisans while shopping for yourself or think ahead for the holidays.Get your Christmas shopping out of the way and make a difference in the lives of many around the world.

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